I’ve been struggling with
this whole Judge Kavanaugh thing. Here’s
what I’m getting at. What if the
allegations against him are one hundred percent true? And what if he were to admit that and
apologize for it? What if he said
something like the following? “I did in
fact make a terrible mistake back in high school. I am deeply saddened by the pain I have
caused this woman over the years. I was
young and dumb but there is still no excuse for what I did and I am truly sorry
for it. It was a single moment in my life where I failed to show respect to a
member of the opposite sex. It was the
only moment and it was under the influence of a good deal of alcohol. My life besides that has been marked by
nothing but the utmost respect and care for all women as is evidenced by the
many who have come to my defense.”
If Judge Kavanaugh came
out and said something like that would we forgive him? Would you forgive him? And what would that forgiveness look
like? Should he still be allowed to go
forward and be confirmed? If Kavanaugh
has shown a pattern of disrespect for women and sexual abuse similar to the Bill
Clintons and Donald Trumps of the world that would of course be a totally
different story. If there was a way to
do it I think both of those men should have been disqualified from running for
public office. But a onetime offense 36
years ago in an otherwise moral and upright life seems to me to be entirely
different. If you know me and my
writings, you know that I lean conservative.
But I think I can sincerely say that if it was Hillary Clinton who got
elected and the exact same situation was taking place with a judge she
nominated, I would say that judge would deserve to go forward with the
confirmation process too. For many
ideological reasons I wouldn’t want to see that judge get confirmed, but would
still think he should be able to go forward with the process.
I think if we are honest
with ourselves, when it’s someone we disagree with politically we tend to be
unforgiving and at times downright condemning, and when it’s someone we agree
with politically we are far more forgiving and willing to find excuses for
their behavior. I know that is my
inclination but I do my best to fight it.
It was Jesus who said we should forgive our brother 7 x 70. I realize that doesn’t necessarily mean that
the person being forgiven still shouldn’t have some consequences for their
actions but in the particular case of Kavanaugh it would seem to me the
insistence on punitive consequences is entirely political.
For the record I am not even close to sold on Ford’s story and I’m disgusted with the timing of this on
Feinstein’s part which is a political move for the sole purpose of delaying the
confirmation. But all that aside, my
challenge in writing this post is to get us thinking about forgiveness and
consequences in the political sphere. I
highly question the allegations against Kavanaugh, but given the scenario I’ve
painted I am willing to forgive and forget.
Are you?
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