As I write this blog entry
my son will be graduating from high school tomorrow. How did that happen already?!? Being a Youth Pastor for many years I’ve been
to more than my fair share of graduations.
I’ve heard some great speeches and I’ve heard some big time duds. But I got to thinking if a graduation speaker
really wanted to leave students with some good advice all they would have to do
is take out a bible and start reading from the book of Proverbs. Consider the following examples.
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Don’t be stuck up
and think you’re better than everyone else.
30:13
·
Leadership gains
authority and respect when the voiceless poor are treated fairly. 29:14
·
If you think you
know it all, you’re a fool for sure; real survivors learn wisdom from others. 28:26
·
You can’t
whitewash your sins and get by with it; you find mercy by admitting and leaving
them. 28:13
·
Walk straight –
live well and be saved; a devious life is a doomed life. 28:18
·
Committed and
persistent work pays off; get-rich-quick schemes are rip-offs. 28:20
·
Justice makes no
sense to the evil-minded; those who seek God know it inside and out. 28:5
·
It’s better to be
poor and direct than rich and crooked.
28:6
·
God has no use
for the prayers of the people who won’t listen to him. 28:9
·
A nagging spouse
is like the drip, drip, drip of a leaky faucet; you can’t turn it off, and you
can’t get away from it. 27:15-16
·
Don’t call
attention to yourself; let others do that for you. 27:2
·
Listening to
gossip is like eating cheap candy; do you want junk like that in your
belly? 26:22
·
Smooth talk from
an evil heart is like glaze on cracked pottery.
26:23
·
Don’t respond to
the stupidity of a fool; you’ll only look foolish yourself. 26:4
·
If you see your
enemy hungry, go buy him lunch; if he’s thirsty, bring him a drink. Your
generosity will surprise him with goodness, and God will look after you. 25:21-22
·
Like billowing
clouds that bring no rain is the person who talks big but never produces. 25:14
·
Patient
persistence pierces through indifference; gentle speech breaks down rigid
defenses. 25:15
·
An honest answer
is like a warm hug. 24:26
·
First plant your
fields; then build your barn. 24:27
·
Don’t talk about
your neighbors behind their backs – no slander or gossip, please. 24:28
·
One day I walked
by the field of an old lazybones, and then passed the vineyard of a lout; they
were overgrown with weeds, thick with thistles, all the fences broken down. I
took a long look and pondered what I saw; the fields preached me a sermon and I
listened: A nap here, a nap there, a day off here, a day off there, sit back,
take it easy – do you know what comes next? Just this: You can look forward to
a dirt-poor life, with poverty as your permanent house guest! 24:30-34
·
Fear God, dear
child – respect your leaders; don’t be defiant or mutinous. 24:21
·
It’s better to be
wise than strong; intelligence outranks muscle any day. 24:5
·
Don’t for a
minute envy careless rebels: soak yourself in the Fear of God – That’s where
your future lies. Then you won’t be left
with an armload of nothing.
·
Don’t drink too
much wine and get drunk; don’t eat too much food and get fat. Drunks and gluttons will end up on skid row,
in a stupor and dressed in rags.
23:20-21
·
Listen with
respect to the father who raised you, and when your mother grows old, don’t
neglect her. 23:22
·
Don’t wear
yourself out trying to get rich; restrain yourself! Riches disappear in the blink of an eye;
wealth sprouts wings and flies off into the wild blue yonder. 23:4-5
·
Don’t be afraid
to correct your young ones; a spanking won’t kill them. A good spanking, in
fact, might save them from something worse than death. 23:13-14
·
Observe people
who are good at their work – skilled workers are always in demand and admired;
they don’t take a backseat to anyone. 22:29
·
Don’t hang out with
angry people; don’t keep company with hotheads.
Bad temper is contagious - don’t get infected. 22:24-25
·
Watch your words
and hold your tongue; you’ll save yourself a lot of grief. 21:23
·
Sinners are
always wanting what they don’t have; the God-loyal are always giving what they
do have. 21:26
·
Do your best,
prepare for the worst – then trust God to bring the victory. 21:31
·
A sterling
reputation is better than striking it rich; a gracious spirit is better than
money in the bank. 22:1
·
Simpletons only learn
the hard way, but the wise learn by listening.
21:11
·
God hates
cheating in the marketplace; rigged scales are an outrage. 20:23
·
Love and truth
from a good leader; sound leadership is founded on loving integrity. 20:28
·
We justify our
actions by appearances; God examines our motives. 21:1
·
Arrogance and
pride – distinguishing marks in the wicked – are just plain sin. 21:4
·
Don’t lose your
grip on love and loyalty. Tie them
around your neck; carve their initials on your heart. 3:3
·
Trust God from
the bottom of your heart; don’t try to figure everything out on your own.
Listen for God’s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go; he’s the one
who will keep you on track. 3:5-6
That should do it for
now. In case you didn’t notice, all I
did was open my bible to Proverbs chapter 30 and I started going backwards
selecting a couple verses from each chapter as I went. I started to realize that even in doing this my blog would end up way too long, so I skipped to one of my favorite chapters
(chapter 3) and threw in a couple more verses to finish this off. I chose “The Message” translation for this
particular endeavor. To the graduates
out there; I hope you have a good speaker at your graduation, but if you don’t
just sneak out your cell phone and read this over again while you wait for him
or her to finish up. You can’t go wrong
with life advice from Proverbs.